Lumpy

Similar pages:

{Written for Define Your Blog,
at Modern Country Style.}




Two weeks ago,
seated with my buddy
from New Zealand,
pinching myself that
we were really together
after nearly five years,
chatting as if we did
it every day, she opened
her bag and gave me
the most wonderful
gift.

Words.

Words that I had sent
to her over the years,
encased in protective
mylar sleeves....



Articles that I'd found
inspiring ~

An e-mail I'd written during
a period when we were both
 coping with disappointments,
where I urged her to see
the world as half-full and 
not half empty ~

And a Dear Abby, which
had moved me enough
to cut it out and send it 
halfway across the world so that
she could absorb its wisdom, too.


I was so astounded that she'd
not only saved these words
all these years, but read and 
re-read them for comfort or
encouragement 
hearing my voice through
their messages, across the miles.
{Thank you for your belief
that I had something meaningful
to say, Helga!}


Via
I love the written word and the
power that it has to uplift, embolden,
edify and move one to smile, laugh
or even cry.  When I began sending
those words to New Zealand, the
internet was in its infancy {as were
our first children} and I never
dreamed that 15 years later I
would be offering up similar 
inspiration to kindred spirits 
around the world via a web-log.

A BLOG : )




I stumbled on blogs by chance,
and like a child with her nose pressed
to the window of a fascinating
shop, I was drawn in immediately.
A month later I had a blog name
and a month after that, I was up
and running as Privet and Holly!*


Via
I didn't set out with a definition
of what I intended my blog to be.
Rather, I just set out to chronicle 
the small things in life that I  found to
 be inspiring, from vintage and
antiques to travel, photography,
books, cooking and special 
moments with family and friends.




The most heartfelt responses that
I received from my writing were from posts
 where I had shared an observation about
life that many of you could relate
to ~ and you let me know with
your own kind, sweet and most 
buoyant comments. 
I am so grateful.


Via
Your words have lifted me up
and helped me to pause and really
SEE this journey that we are all on.
And if I, in turn, have gifted that sight
back to you even a little bit these last
12 months, that gives me 
amazing satisfaction.




I want to close this post with the
Dear Abby that I mentioned, above.   
At the time I read it in the paper it
was an encore column, so perhaps
you've also seen it before.  But to me,
it sums up a life lesson better than
anything that I've read in a long, 
long, time.  As my friend and I
caught up on that special day two
weeks ago, we found ourselves referring
 back to the power of this little
column again and again, by simply looking 
at each other after sharing a sad or
miraculous or silly story and 
simply repeating: 

Lumps.

It really says it all.

Dear Abby: 
 In response to Livid in Salem, Mass., who was fed
up with people who put their children on their answering
machines:  All I have to say is she and the other women in her
office need more adversity in their lives.

If their biggest problem is having to listen to small children
sing before they leave a message, they should get down on
their knees and thank God.

After the death of my 11 month old son six years ago, I
learned not to sweat the small stuff.

As the perceptive author and minister Robert Fulghum
said:  One of life's best coping mechanisms is to know the
difference between an inconvenience and a problem.  If you
break your neck, if you have nothing to eat, if your house
is on fire ~ then you've got a problem.  Everything else is an
inconvenience.  Life is lumpy.  A lump in the oatmeal, a lump
in the throat and a lump in the breast are not the same kind of
lump.  One needs to know the difference.

Abby, I am constantly learning.  You may sign my name.
~ Peggy Hart, Bel Air, Maryland

Dear Peggy:  I, too, am constantly learning.  Thank you for
reminding me of something I knew, but need to be reminded
of from time to time.  There are many who will read this and
appreciate the reminder.

~ San Francisco Chronicle, 1994


Via
All of our lives have lumps.

My prayer is that yours will only 
be lumps of inconvenience and not
true problems, but after a year of
reading your comments, your
blogs and your e-mails, I know 
that there are plenty of wonderful
people dealing with the big ones.

If you are one of them, I hope
you know that you are not alone.

Writing Privet and Holly has taught me
 that and so very much more.

Thank you,
thank you,
thank you.

xx
Suzanne



Visit Sarah for more definitions!


*To learn more about how
I named my blog, go here.


Related posts for Lumpy:


0 comments:

Post a Comment

Pages 381234 »
  • You can, like, so get spa treatment... Free beauty tips: Ah, holiday shopping: a few laps around the mall, a swing by the food court for some grease, and, uh, a quick stop for some wrinkle...
  • Friday Follower Freebie!... Free beauty tips: One winner will receive an assortment of 11 discontinued Maybelline Express Finish polishes! These have been turning up at Dollar Trees...
  • Merry Christmas!... Free beauty tips: Merry Christmas, Dear Reader!My last holiday manicure of 2010 is a little cartoony, but I think it's fun.  I used OPI Ali's Big Break,...
  • Merry Christmas Eve!... Free beauty tips: Merry Christmas Eve, Dear Reader!I was up for a holiday manicure this morning, so I ran with it.  Actually, I tried and failed last...
  • Rescue Beauty Lounge Black Russian... Free beauty tips: Merry Christmas Eve or Merry Christmas, depending on where you're located! Today I have another black with red glitter polish, although...
  • Happy Holidays!... Free beauty tips: And with that, we’re on vaca. Hopefully, same for you! Have a wonderful holiday break, spend some quality time with the fam, and make sure...
  • Lippmann Ruby Red Slippers... Free beauty tips: I think this may just be my manicure for Christmas Eve! Ruby Red Slippers is nothing short of stunning. It has a blackened base that upon...
  • Chanel Black Pearl... Free beauty tips: Good morning, Dear Reader!Last night I tried out Chanel Black Pearl, so that's what I have for you today.  Black Pearl applied well,...
  • CQ Polishes: Silver Taupe & Cos... Free beauty tips: Above & Below: CQ's Silver Taupe is a fantastic taupe with a little bling. I used 2 coats, but it would have looked much better with 3....
  • New Konad Plates: m82 & m83... Free beauty tips: Good afternoon, Dear Reader!I just got word that there are two new Konad plates coming out which will be available in mid to late January...
  • Essie Sassy Satchel & Essie Car... Free beauty tips: Above & Below: Essie's Sassy Satchel shown in various lighting. This is a deep rich burgundy shade with the slightest touch of fine...
  • Konad White Pearl Special Polish... Free beauty tips: Good morning, Dear Reader!WowSoCool has some new Konad goodies in, and I have one of them to show you today: Konad White Pearl Special...
Save Lumpy on social network:
  • Last of the Color Club Japanese Gli... Free beauty tips: Above & Below: Fresh Mint shown with 3 coats. The above photo is using an Ott light, and the photo below is with a flash.Below: More of...
  • Color Club Japanese Exclusive Glitt... Free beauty tips: Above & Below: Bishop Weed shown with 3 coats. The glitter, although multi-colored in brighter lighting, gives way to a more silver...
  • Color Club Japanese Exclusive Glitt... Free beauty tips: Above: Sparkling Cassis shown with 3 coats. This is a medium Carnation pink tone.Below: I applied 1 coat of Nicole's Deeply In Love over...
  • Chez Delaney Plates H3 & H9... Free beauty tips: Good morning, Dear Reader!This morning I decided to play around with a couple of the Chez-Delaney plates I got not too long ago, two I...
  • New Color Club Exclusive Japanese G... Free beauty tips: Above & Below: Bottle pictures of the newest 8 Color Club Exclusive Japanese Glitters. Above are what I color the 'colored' ones, and...
  • Chanel Rose Paradise... Free beauty tips: Good morning, Dear Reader!This morning I got to try out the last polish in my most recent Chanel order, Rose Paradise.  This one's a...
  • Friday Follower Freebie!... Free beauty tips: Contest has now ended!Merry Christmas! Today's winner will receive 4 full-sized products from the Savannah Bee Company, including a Hand...