Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts

Better Together

Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy,
like art, like love.  It has no survival value;
rather, it is one of those things that give value
to survival.


~ C.S. Lewis




I flew into Chicago
last weekend
to spend precious time
with my dear friend
Kathleen
as she endured her
first round of
chemotherapy.

She is such a
sport
so full of
faith
of life
the best friend
a girl
could ever
ask for.

I also spent time with
 sweet friend Fiona ~
She has her 
own story, 
as well....
for another time,
another post.

Put us all together:
Me and Fiona,
cooking...
Kathleen, cheering
us on....
And you have
almost 137 years
of living
and loving
between us.

Three peas in a pod
Fiona, Kathleen, Me

Despite her awe-
inspiring attitude,
Kathleen's energy
ebbed and flowed.


So, this was our
prescription, our RX,
 for her first 
chemo weekend...

Cooking


Collaborating,
Fiona and I cooked
and froze seven double
batches of our go-to
meals....

You'll find one of
them, my recipe for
the most yummy and
easy soup  here.

Eating

When she felt
up to it, we fed
her comfort food,
including this.


White Truffle Mac
and Cheese, Kasey's
recipe over at Lola B's.

Decorating

Kath was feeling
a bit overwhelmed
by some unfinished
projects which she's
had to set aside 
during her illness.
So, Fiona and I
tackled a few hanging
jobs, including the
start of her
{special} K wall.


Talking

We sat outside
one lovely night
and talked and talked 
and talked.  Great
medicine for anyone!

Her gorgeous back yard
Although Kathleen
abstained, Fiona
and I toasted her
courage as she faces
this beastly disease.


Many cups of tea
were consumed, 
as well!


Laughing

Not deep stuff,
but it made us
smile...and laugh!


Fashion show

{For the weeks to come.}

New hats....


And new wig...


{She rocked both looks!}

Did I mention kids?
Husbands?
Well, they all made
the weekend possible
for us....and we were
very grateful.

I even sneaked in
breakfast with my
sweetheart God-daughter,
Isabella ~ Fiona's oldest.


Here she is with
Kathleen's kids ~
Aren't they all
adorable?


 I am six hours
away from Kathleen
and Fiona by car....
An  hour,
by plane....
But always,
always,
close in my
heart.

I miss them,
even as I
embrace the
normal rhythm
of my own home
and family.

And I know
you understand
just what I mean.


One round
down,
five to go.




No distance of place or lapse of time
can lessen the friendship of those
who are throughout persuaded
of each other's worth....


~ Robert Southey



PS:  Thank you for your
continued thoughts and prayers!
They continue to mean
so much to me and Kathleen.

My Feathering
the Nest giveaway is
still open...




[images:
1, 3  flickr {click for attribution};
4,11,12 Google images;
rest P&H] 











The Question



Tell me about yourself.

Over the last year
I have volunteered
at an organization
that assists unemployable
or under-employed
individuals to prepare 
for interviews 
that will help
them land jobs
 paying a
 living wage.

Tell me about yourself
is often the
most daunting
question for them
to field.


Recently, I 
received recognition
from some lovely
bloggers, asking
me to answer this
same question, in
one way or another.

Gulp.






Decor Naturel
I've decided to
use the framework
for my answer
provided by the
wonderful Melissa
who asked:

What are 
seven things in
your life
that you
absolutely
know 
to be true?


1. Bloom
where you
are planted.



As a child
my family moved
numerous times
with my dad's
career, from east
to west, south to
north and this
was our mantra.
Making friends,
joining a church,
volunteering....
you can't help
but blossom.
I've moved
seven times in
my married life
so this philosophy
has served me well!


2. Kindness
 always 
counts.




Whether it's a
compliment to 
someone in the
grocery check-out
line or writing a thank
you note to my child's
favorite teacher, I
believe that kindness
is a limitless gift to
share with others.
I've never regretted
showing kindness,
only missed
 opportunities
to give it.



3. We choose 
to be 
happy.




Every school day when
I hug my kids good-bye,
I don't tell them to be 
good or to have a nice
day....I tell them to
be happy.  It's a choice
we make, each day.



4. Friendship
supersedes 
demographics
and physical boundaries.
Our common values
are the ties that bind.



I am blessed with
friends of all ages and
stages.  Some of the best,
including my parents,
live far away from me.
One bestie even lives in
New Zealand, a
a world away
geographically....
But, she's always
 close
to my heart.



5. Everyone
 has 
a story.





Even those who
think that their lives
are ordinary have
a tale to tell.  From
fellow airline passengers,
to seniors in my choir,
to each of your blogs,
I'm all ears; true
stories fascinate me
in a way that fantasy
never will!



6. My legacy 
will be
the two
 loving people
that I helped 
to raise.





No other job
that I've ever held
will impact the
world like this one.
I pray each day
for God's
guidance to
get it right!






7. Time and 
unconditional love 
are the most precious
commodities on earth.

These are both things to
be savored, as you cannot
buy either one.  Oh how
I wish I'd realized
this when I was younger!
Although
I've squandered
my share of time,
I have been
given the gift 
of unconditional
love from special
people {and animals!} in my 
life, including 
the dearest man
who married me
nearly 24 years ago.




What do you
know in your
life to be
absolutely
true?

In addition to
Melissa, I'm
sending big 
thank-yous to
Sally at Divine
Annie at Decor Naturel
for their dear awards
and for caring enough
to say....

Tell me
about
yourself.












Metamorphosis

1. (noun) friend 



a person you know well
 and regard with affection and trust 



When 
you've known
someone
almost half
of your
life....

Three Muskateers, 1998

{from newlywed
working girl ~
to hoping 
to be a mama ~
to mama!
to mama
of older kids}

Always
there for you

2008

beautiful

kind

loving

compassionate

kindred spirit

When does
that person
change from
friend
to
family?


2006

Isn't it
strange
how
non-relations
can become
closer
to your
 heart
than some
of your own
family members
with whom
you share
the same
blood,
the same
ancestors

but who
don't really
know you
as well....

2009

Know that
you cry
easily
from emotion.

Can become
so animated
that you
finish her
sentences.

That you
have
an old soul
and love
the same
pretty things
as she
does.

2007

That you
have untold
questions
about spirit
and faith.


All our
children,
now out
of
elementary school...

Giving us
freedom
to fly farther
from the
nests,
together.

Charleston
in January

Na-da Farm
sale in May

Savannah
in June!

2010

My dear
friend
Kathleen

sister of
my heart

About to
take a new
journey

Through 
surgery
and possibly
radiation
and chemo...

A different
trip than our
others....

But one I will
be with
her on,
every step
of the
way.

I love you,
Kath!



Dear blogging
friends, please
send your prayers
to my soul sister,
Kathleen
for her surgery
on July 27th
and for
the journey
that lies 
ahead.
We both
truly believe
in the 
power
of your
positive thoughts
and prayers.


[images: P&H archives!]
First pic is our
girls
Summer 2007


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